RHOC's Alexis Bellino and her husband Jim have split after thirteen years of marriage and are headed for divorce.

The former ‘Real Housewives of Orange County’ star’s husband, Jim, filed for divorce to end the marriage on 21 June citing irreconcilable differences. The alienated duo married on 16 April 2005 and shared three children: 7-year-old son James and twin daughters, Melania and Mackenna who are just 5 years of age. .

Businessman Jim, aged 56, is requesting joint legal and physical custody of their kids as well as spousal support. He listed ‘TBD’ as their date of separation, according to TMZ.

Divorcee:- YouTuber Nicki Swift reports on the divorce between Alexis and Jim Bellino (Published on:- 6 July 2018)

This is the second divorce for Alexis, aged 41 as she was previously married to her college sweetheart, Jeff Barry, from 2002 to 2004. Their divorce took place just 15 months after the couple was married.

Star Magazine revealed exclusively in their 2009 issue, infidelity, boozy brawls, computer hacking, physical threats and missing money were all included in the back-and-forth charges contained in their divorce file.

Jeff also accused that Alexis cheated on him while talking with Star Magazine. He said Alexis was having an affair with a wealthy father of three she met in a gym.

In her defense, Alexis, who celebrates her birthday on January 19, claimed that Jeff conducted a terrifying "computer invasion" of her email account and even took $10,000 from their joint saving account.

Well, Alexis now she is going to face her consequential fear - divorce. 

Less than a month after Jim had filed the divorce paper, he was caught by paparazzi kissing a mysterious woman in Las Vegas. When confronted by RadarOnline about his ex-wife, he said:

Alexis and I each spent 2 1/2 days separately at Alisal Dude Ranch with our children. I went to Vegas and met some friends after the trip.

Alexis too has taken measures to get her mind off the split from her ex-husband. On 9 July 2018 she posted a picture from the wedding she had attended with the caption:

Although no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

Surprisingly enough, she was accompanied by a “male friend” to the wedding.

Post-split, the former flames seem to enjoy a cordial relationship as evidenced by the purchase of a 4-bedroom mansion in San Juan Capistrano, Orange County under the name of Bellino’s JAMM Family Trust. The deed of the newly bought 5-bathroom 3,3730 sq ft mansion was later transferred to Alexis’ name. She had reportedly paid $1.3 million for the luxury home.

Million Dollar Crib:- A still look at the front porch of Alexis' latest $1.3 million acquisition (Photo:- theblast.com) 

The ex-flames are not new to buying an expensive house. In May of 2018 - a month before the news of their divorce broke - Alexis and Jim had forked an astounding $4 million on an oceanfront house.

Back in 2011, Alexis, the conservative Christian housewife, expressed her deep-seated fears about divorce with her therapist as those fears were having an adverse effect on her marriage with businessman Jim.

Not just with Jeff, she had also faced divorced issues of her parents in her childhood. Alexis told huffingpost.com in 2011.

I probably freak out about divorce because of the fact that my parents got divorced..that’s why Jim and I work so hard to keep our family unit number one, because you think, ‘oh the grass is greener on the other side...if I get out of this marriage, my kids will be better.’ But if the grass is greener, you need to water your lawn, not buy another house

Despite being acknowledged to all the fears and issues of divorce, and its consequences, Alexis has to face her biggest fear 'divorce' again with husband, Jim.