Selma Blair started dating Ron Carlson, a novelist, and former college professor, in July 2017. They continued their relationship for almost a year. But for reasons unknown, the duo split in January 2018. 

After almost two years, the duo rekindled their relationship, and Blair took to Instagram to announce her reconciliation with her former boyfriend. 

Inside Blair's Relationship with Boyfriend Carlson

On January 23, 2020, the Hellboy actress posted a picture of herself with Carlson on Instagram. The photo featured her resting her head on her partner's shoulder with a subtle smile while Carlson looked towards the camera. 

While the picture itself spoke volumes of their reconciliation, Blair used the caption to clarify the situation. "People come into our lives. And sometimes they go. Or you go. And you go on," she began her lengthy write-up, referring to her initial separation with Carlson. 

"And you try to put the pieces together in your mind to make sense of it. And sometimes, when you are ready, you may find that person again," the 49-year-old continued.

Heralding herself as the luckiest woman, Blair stated Carlson was the one she wanted to lean on as well as hold up. Then she ended her statement with sweet words that read, "For good. I love you @ronnniecarlson." 

Since the announcement, Blair has been pretty vocal about her relationship with her partner. She regularly posts his pictures on her socials, and that's not all. The pair make public appearances once in a while.

For instance, the lovebirds were spotted taking a stroll while grabbing coffee in Los Angeles in February 2021. They were even seen enjoying a romantic lunch date at Mauro's Cafe in Los Angeles on April 2021. 

Selma Blair's Boyfriend Is Close to Her Son

Blair's boyfriend is close to her nine-year-old son, Arthur Saint Bleick.

A peek into Blair's Instagram clarifies the three spend family time together. But, most importantly, he also has a good rapport with Blair's ex-boyfriend and the father of her son, Jason Bleick.


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On March 17, 2021, the mother-of-one posted family pictures on Instagram, and one photo featured her son, her boyfriend, and her ex-boyfriend. It's no surprise that Blair has a healthy relationship with Bleick; he was one of the people to support Blair after her diagnosis of multiple sclerosis in 2018. 

The duo was together for two years, starting from 2010 to 2012. They welcomed their son in 2011. "We have a flexible custody arrangement and Jason is a huge part of Arthur's life," Blair told People in July 2019. 

Other than Bleick, Blair was in a brief relationship with fellow actor David Lyons in mid-2020. In addition, she was married to American musician Ahmet Zappa from 2004 to 2006.